I'm feeling the rage...

[Avengardh]

So if this offends you, I am sorry, but you read it *wink*

Taken from my journal:


Don't ask why or what.

I went to cut my hair today, but before that took place...:
Person A: "Are you coming with me or not?!"
Person A: "You owe it to me"
Person A: "You HAVE to do it"
Me: "Yeah, I'm going, I think I need a little trim."

At the hair-place...:
Person A: "Cut it 2 inches instead of one!"
Me: "Why? I think one inch is enough, I don't want my hair that short."
Person A: "I don't know how you can stand to have hair that long, you should cut it shorter."
Me: "I don't want to."
Person A: "UGH, you are crazy!"
Me: *sighs*

In the car, on the way home...:
Person A: "I get in the shower first!" (yes, demanding tone)
Me: "I never said you wouldn't, now, did I? You always get in the shower first because I take longer."
Person A: "Fine, I am not talking to you anymore!"
Person A: "You're in a foul mood!"
Person A: "Don't even talk to me!"

We get home. Person A throws my one letter that came in the mail at me, yes, throws.

Bitch. Bitch. Bitch.

I f*cking hate sensitive-explosive people.
Suck it up and shut the hell up! If you can attack but not take it, then don't open your beak!!

I guess that's also why my brain has been damaged, I've lived with one my whole life.

Man, that felt better.

~*Aven*~

[Melody]

Good job, but I think you should have blurt that at the person. They may have been more understanding that way. :D

[Pati]

Find example of why I live alone! LOL

[Avengardh]

Good job, but I think you should have blurt that at the person. They may have been more understanding that way. :D

There are three people I will never stop loving and caring about no matter what (perhaps to my own demise, who knows). My dad, my brother, and my mom.

Person A was the latter...I can't hurt her unless I really need to say something...so, until then, the bag fills up ^^

~*Aven*~

[paladinoflunaria]

That sucks.

[Vagabond]

Hm, sounds somewhat familiar, but not totally. Is she an ENFJ or something...? Ugh, I don't know... hang in. Mine is an ESFJ and, to make it even more impossible, a 2w3. It sucks, but we can't do anything but loving them, even though they drive us crazy... *sigh*

[Avengardh]

Hm, sounds somewhat familiar, but not totally. Is she an ENFJ or something...? Ugh, I don't know... hang in. Mine is an ESFJ and, to make it even more impossible, a 2w3. It sucks, but we can't do anything but loving them, even though they drive us crazy... *sigh*

No...funny thing is...she's an ENTP...just, a Scorpio...lol...

Yeah...can't stop loving them U.U

~*Aven*~

[nobarcode]

Good job, but I think you should have blurt that at the person. They may have been more understanding that way. :D

Ah...now see, that's what gets me into trouble. Next thing you know, your the crazy one. :rolleyes:

[ohnoaninfp]

stand your ground when they try to get you to do things you don't want to do. Let the person know that her attitude needs to change and that she shouldn't be so sensitive. I can't stand it when people get pissed off for every little thing I do, even if I did nothing wrong.

[antireconciler]

Your mom acts younger than you. Weird.

Sometimes my mom gets a little sensitive to things that just don't warrant it and I have to tell her to stop being such a mom, but we usually get along. I really can't imagine what it would be like to have a mom that acted that way. Weird.

[Avengardh]

Your mom acts younger than you. Weird.

Sometimes my mom gets a little sensitive to things that just don't warrant it and I have to tell her to stop being such a mom, but we usually get along. I really can't imagine what it would be like to have a mom that acted that way. Weird.

Hehe, someone noticed that ^^

My dad acts the same way sometimes...but most of the time he's the "old one". It's frustrating sometimes...but I get by, have been all my life...hehe.

Oh, and thanks to everyone who replied, I didn't have a chance to reply for a bit but I am now ^^

~*Aven*~

[Crazy]

My wife is like that, and she also has clinical depression pretty bad. So if I stand up and say something, even later, she gets depressed or defensive. 4 years of this, plus some other (big) stuff, is the reason I am getting divorced.

[flan2dave]

lol, that's so un-motherly, my mom is the "eat this, clean that, don't forget this" type. The only thing that actually bothers me though is when she rambles on about her views on things like religion and politics. It's a broken record. As for my dad, he is interrelationshiply impaired, but he sticks to his values and is consistent in this regard, making his predictability both useful and stifling depending on the context.

[shaytana]

stand your ground when they try to get you to do things you don't want to do. Let the person know that her attitude needs to change and that she shouldn't be so sensitive. I can't stand it when people get pissed off for every little thing I do, even if I did nothing wrong.

With me, it is especially if I did nothing wrong.
I don't think there is much else that pisses me off more than being accused of something that I did not do.

[Division56]

That is like them telling us to be more sensitive though. Neither of you will change, just try to put distance between each other.

[Claverhouse]

stand your ground when they try to get you to do things you don't want to do. Let the person know that her attitude needs to change and that she shouldn't be so sensitive. I can't stand it when people get pissed off for every little thing I do, even if I did nothing wrong.

With me, it is especially if I did nothing wrong.
I don't think there is much else that pisses me off more than being accused of something that I did not do.

What really drives me mad is to be told to do something that I am already in the process of doing. Like 'Don't forget to wash the mice' when the sponge is in your hand...


Claverhouse :ph34r:

[ohnoaninfp]

stand your ground when they try to get you to do things you don't want to do. Let the person know that her attitude needs to change and that she shouldn't be so sensitive. I can't stand it when people get pissed off for every little thing I do, even if I did nothing wrong.

With me, it is especially if I did nothing wrong.
I don't think there is much else that pisses me off more than being accused of something that I did not do.

Its not that that person was accusing me of something. They would become pissed off at me for something really stupid that wasn't my fault. For instance I have a friend called James. Well one night James, his brother and his brothers fiancee and I went to Karaoke. Well I had a paper due the next morning and I was working on it on my laptop. I was frustrated because of all the pressure from college and other things. I had to go home and get my English book, because I had forgot it at home. I just got so pissed I started to cry. Well's James brother's fiancee saw that I was upset and she gave me a hug to comfort me. I went home got my book and came back, plus my glasses broke that night. I came back and checked my email. I got one from James, stating that he was angry at me, and would have attacked me, but he didn't want to get kicked out. All this because she hugged me? He was mad because he tought I trusted her more than him. Well duh Einstien. Shes a girl, and she doesan't have a crush on me. James liked me, but I told him I liked someone else. Which was the truth. He wrote her a letter too, stating that he wasn't going to attack her, because he respects her more, because she is going to marry his brother. He got pissed at me because someone saw that I was upset and comforted me. Thanks alot asshole, shows that you really care about me. Men! Anyways stupid stuff like that pisses me off. :rant:

[shaytana]

Its not that that person was accusing me of something. They would become pissed off at me for something really stupid that wasn't my fault. For instance I have a friend called James. Well one night James, his brother and his brothers fiancee and I went to Karaoke. Well I had a paper due the next morning and I was working on it on my laptop. I was frustrated because of all the pressure from college and other things. I had to go home and get my English book, because I had forgot it at home. I just got so pissed I started to cry. Well's James brother's fiancee saw that I was upset and she gave me a hug to comfort me. I went home got my book and came back, plus my glasses broke that night. I came back and checked my email. I got one from James, stating that he was angry at me, and would have attacked me, but he didn't want to get kicked out. All this because she hugged me? He was mad because he tought I trusted her more than him. Well duh Einstien. Shes a girl, and she doesan't have a crush on me. James liked me, but I told him I liked someone else. Which was the truth. He wrote her a letter too, stating that he wasn't going to attack her, because he respects her more, because she is going to marry his brother. He got pissed at me because someone saw that I was upset and comforted me. Thanks alot asshole, shows that you really care about me. Men! Anyways stupid stuff like that pisses me off. :rant:


ahhh yes I can completely understand your frustration.
I had a friend once, we will call him Marvin. I had known Marvin online for a few years, we were really good friends (never met in person) and talked everyday online. Well one day my cat died, he fell out of my bedroom window, 20 stories high. I loved that cat (I dont really like cats at all but Atreyu was special) so I was really hurt by his death. But I didn't want to talk to him or anyone else that I knew about it, mourning is something that I can not share with the people that I know. But I found this newsgroup relating to this and I posted a message sharing my story and my pain. Marvin must have Googled my name shortly afterwards and he found the message that I made and got extremely pissed at me for not trusting him enough to share my grief with, and that he needed me to talk to him about this because he was sad at my cats death too and needed comforting. WTF?!?!? *MY* cat just died and I have to comfort him?!?!

Me and Marvin do not really talk anymore, although he has messaged me a few times saying that we need to talk, and how he wants to rebuild the friendship (ended for different reasons ... well same reasons pretty much just a different fight).

Me and Marvin were friends for many years, these people do not change.
I suggest leaving the friendship, in the long run it will only be destructive to you.

[Melody]

So you stopped talking to him after your cat died? Or you just didn't tell him about your cat?

[shaytana]

So you stopped talking to him after your cat died? Or you just didn't tell him about your cat?

I told him about my cat, and I didn't stop talking to him. I just did not choose his shoulder to cry on, I did not share my mourning with him. That is what pissed him off.

[Avengardh]

So you stopped talking to him after your cat died? Or you just didn't tell him about your cat?

I told him about my cat, and I didn't stop talking to him. I just did not choose his shoulder to cry on, I did not share my mourning with him. That is what pissed him off.

That sounds like my ex, who would get pissed if I didn't tell him what was bothering me that day.

Gods, some things just aren't going to be "shared" in a relationship, any kind.
To me, it's some type of control they want to be able to have in your life, perhaps he thought he would lose your friendship if he didn't know what was going on in your life.

My ex thought he would lose me if he didn't know enough about my life and knew where I was and who my friends were, and if I was "ok" if I didn't post anything on my LJ for a day.

As if I wasn't free to do what I wanted...

~*Aven*~