Time for the manditory *sigh*

[Sam172]

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[Avengardh]

People change because they have to...or want to.
Life would be really boring otherwise.

Perhaps it's for the best, seems to me like she is pretty unhappy with being annoyed, and I am not too sure you enjoy it either. Give it time, letting go is hard when you really love someone (been there...done that) but if it's not meant to be, then it's not.
:]


~*Aven*~

[Division56]

INTPs are known to stay in bad relationships. Even though we know they've ended and they're stone cold dead.

[Google Monster]

Probaly because an INTP can adapt well with what they have?

[SensEye]

Actually, I would say people tend not to change.

I would guess that now that the initial infatuation phase is over, she is comfortable enough to show her true nature, and you are just getting around to really noticing it.

[EternalCynic]

I know the feeling. My boyfriend and I hardly have anything in common anymore.. he clings to little similarites as an excuse, like when we say something at the same time. Yet I find it so hard to let go, hum. Life's just sticky like that sometimes.

[Hypnos]

We do have some of the same views though. Such as greenpeace, vegetarianism, shakespeare and music :)
Gah -- no wonder you're both unhappy, you're both dweebs.

[Birdsnest]

:hello:

[Vagabond]

Or you could tell her that this is who you are and you have no intention of changing - take it or leave it. Of course, you would have to do the same with her and not give her a hard time about her red, red hair or anything else that doesn't go directly against you.

Then again, maybe I am just very strong on my sp variant.

[int]

Nope, I'm sx and agree completely.

[file cabinet]

I finally let go and split up with her :(.

She seemed somewhat happy......but i feel bad :(.
Now I have a gaping hole which can't easily be filled...

just think of the next gf you'll get

[nobarcode]

She stayed annoyed the whole day, and even got annoyed because she was annoyed at me.
That's the funny part.

[s]

We do have some of the same views though. Such as greenpeace, vegetarianism, shakespeare and music :)
Gah -- no wonder you're both unhappy, you're both dweebs.

:rofl:



But seriously... you are really young and most relationships are retarded at 16.