HEY LADIES...

[Lucas]

I'm looking for some input, on, umm, girls.

What is, in your opinion, the best 'approach' a guy has used in getting to know you? Or at least getting you to give him your phone number. What has been the most successful? I'm not talking about anything silly like pickup lines.

The last month or so I've been in a slump with the chicas, striking out every time. :( I might have to take one for the team, (lower my standards) to keep my confidence alive in this area. haha

Any advice is welcome.
-Lucas :)


"Girls. All I really want is girls." -The Beastie Boys

[Avengardh]

What has this forum turned into...it's kinda annoying...

But maybe it's just me *shrug*

[file cabinet]

let us hear your approaches you've taken already so then suggestions can be made where you can improve. maybe the mature forum should be turned into a relationship forum?

[Lucas]

Van fan culo, testa di cazo.

[Lucas]

{edited by lucas}


Ave- How is it different from you going on about being bi-curious?? But maybe its just me, *shrugs*


-Lucas

[s]

Van fan culo, testa di cazo.

Como?

[file cabinet]

hahahah, I like you. you have valid points although hopefully we can get back on topic...
what methods have you tried already? although I find asking for relationship advice on an intp board quite humorous(not just this thread but the others). I wish there was a magic solution since I am lonely as well.

[Avengardh]

Hey fc, maybe we could make this into a forum about crossdressing males??


Ave- How is it different from you going on about being bi-curious?? But maybe its just me, *shrugs*


-Lucas

Haha, your idiocy is outstanding, I shouldn't even bother to reply, but I will.

I meant it in the way that all of your answers are on the other threads (inside the same section), if you look closely, mostly everyone is asking the same things, so, it's kind of annoying to answer the same things all over again.

And now that I am thinking about it, maybe it's time to take a vacation from the forum.

Thanks for letting me come to that conclusion :D, oh, and yeah, maybe it's just you ^_^

~*Aven*~

[Utopmk]

The information you seek is available elsewhere.

[Boozer]

I wish there was a magic solution since I am lonely as well.

Yeah I hear you. The blind leading the blind like SensEye said. Still, just seeing I'm not the only person with a grand total of one relationship in high school (which was the first time I kissed a girl, despite later hearing I had had many secret admirers) makes me feel a little better. Misery loves company I suppose.

Maybe it would be better to just add a relationships forum instead of co-opting this one. Though I do think the number of fourms is a little excessive. It seems to me that the enitre "shrink's sofa" could be collapsed into a forum. Entertainment/Playground, Science/Gadgets and so on.

[s]

Resign yourself to the fact that you may never get laid, and life will be easier. Maybe the girls are all wrong for you, maybe it the timing, or just maybe you don't look like this:
http://www.intpcentral.com/uploads/68-47038.jpg

or this:

http://www.intpcentral.com/uploads/26.jpg

or even this:

http://www.intpcentral.com/uploads/baio.jpg

My advice? Be yourself, and if the stupid bitches don't like you...
get rich, act like an asshole, and they will eventually come running.

You asked for an INTP female's advice. ;)

[Utopmk]

My advice? Be yourself, and if the stupid bitches don't like you...
get rich, act like an asshole, and they will eventually come running.

You asked for an INTP female's advice. ;)

Sad, but true. This is why you should use women for sex. Treat them like the sluts they are. They will dig it.

edit: This doesn't hold true with my mom and sister.

[Jezebel]

Lucas, like I've said, I don't think there is any magic approach that will work on every girl. If a guy comes up to me and starts talking I won't ignore him or walk off right away. I can be quiet though, so if he isn't very conversational it can be awkward.

[Lucas]

You asked for an INTP female's advice. ;)

exactly, I asked about female INTP experiences regarding 'getting macked on' something I can find nowhere else!

Van fan culo, testa di cazzo es un insulto en italiano by the way.

-Lucas

[Postblank]

Lucas, like I've said, I don't think there is any magic approach that will work on every girl.Don't deny there's a universal password!

[Boozer]

Lucas, like I've said, I don't think there is any magic approach that will work on every girl.Don't deny there's a universal password! :rofl:

[file cabinet]

Lucas, the last 'best' place for advice I've seen is the Bone Closet on http://www.genmay.com/ (genmay is mainly an offtopic forum) but the question you haved asked has been asked before(I've seen it again and again).. so usually it takes time and patience.

[s]

I'm looking for some input, on, umm, girls.


Any advice is welcome.
-Lucas :)


"Girls. All I really want is girls." -The Beastie Boys

:blink: So what the fuck did that mean?

I gave you "any advice" I had. If you are going to get all defensive about why you are having problems in the first place, then you are not thinking in a wholistic manner. "Macking" a woman, will get you no where fast. Taking care of you, the product you are trying to "sell," is a damn good start to "making." I am a woman, and a damn fine one, and if some loser came up to me in my singleton days with below average looks and a social complex, we would not have hit it off as anything other than friends. However, if you looked the best you could and could connect with a woman somehow on an intellectual level, you may just have a chance without trying some cheap gimmicks.

I was playfully answering your question, and instead you got defensive. I think you are a cool poster, I really do, but come on, pal.

[Lucas]

:blink: So what the fuck did that mean?

I was playfully answering your question, and instead you got defensive. I think you are a cool poster, I really do, but come on, pal.

I didn't mean it like that. I asked for advice, and you're the only one who gave me any! (until later) I was talking to the people who said my question could be answered elsewhere. Geesh.

Why does everyone think that because I'm asking what has worked well for other people, I am ugly and don't have any game? I do just fine, thank you.

I'm sick of going out with the sorority girl types, and am trying with intellectual girls, but have been failing miserably. No cheap gimmicks, just trying to adapt, or refine my approach to these intellectual girls. (macking)

I thought INTP females could give me some input. Thank you for the genuine input and the compliment s. ;)

-Lucas

[Division56]

Maybe you're looking in the wrong places for people.


Try looking in a library or at a star party.





*admits to not having read the whole thread*

*or most of it at that matter*

[Utopmk]

I didn't mean it like that. I asked for advice, and you're the only one who gave me any! (until later) I was talking to the people who said my question could be answered elsewhere. Geesh.


I knew you wouldn't have much luck here. Google will never flame you.

[file cabinet]

btw, as an INTP trying webpersonals, it hasn't worked for me.

[ohnoaninfp]

Just be your self. Show the girl you are interested and show her some respect. I hate when guys treat me like a sex object.

[spirilis]

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

http://www.fastseduction.com/

http://www.sex-project.com/

Go check those out, choke the chicken (but don't spray it all over the bathroom walls and use it as hair conditioner), and have a nice day!

[Division56]

My suggestion of strategy is simple and safe: befriend them. Suddenly, you're exposed to their friends. Females (stereotyping) are notorious match-makers, at least when they have friends they like who are single and make a good match.



Oooooo, good idea! :nerd:

[Ponderous]

Looking back, anyone who has been able to make me laugh has had all they needed to get my attention.

FWIW

[Star Cannon]

Your asking the opinions of women who are representing less than 3% percent of the population, completely the opposite of what guys expect, and expect to get an answer representing the other 97% of the world's women?!

That over sight cannot be tolerated. Go find your answer some where else your sure as hell not getting it here...

Star Cannon

[spirilis]

My suggestion of strategy is simple and safe: befriend them. Suddenly, you're exposed to their friends. Females (stereotyping) are notorious match-makers, at least when they have friends they like who are single and make a good match.



Oooooo, good idea! :nerd:
Come to think of it, I remember in college one of my boss's friends at the time used to use that technique... my boss was talking how he always tried to get with his close girl-friends, hence why he ended up with very few of them, while this other guy would have a whole network of women as his friends. There's likely some merit in that. Think of it as "getting your foot in the door", except this time you have someone holding the door open for you ;)