Instantly clicking with someone??

[xisnotx]

By "instantly clicking" I mean meeting someone for the first time and after a few minutes you

-have the feeling that you can truly be yourself around that person.
-feel like you can say or do anything you would around that person without upsetting them.
-have the feeling that you don't have to "dumb it down" for them.
-make jokes or say things you would otherwise keep to yourself.

Basically, the person seems totally in sync with you. You are also very relaxed around him/her. In short, you sense that the person "gets you" on a higher level.

Has this ever happened to anyone else? What exactly is this? Why does it happen?

[Ptah]

Yes, I have experienced this. I later married her.

[Lurker]

Yes, it's happened to me twice.

[Anonymous]

Once I guess, but I was mistaken.

[gardnerj]

they're always ENFx. Always. More often ENFJ.

[Shadowlogical]

Yea just a few days ago. But Im a young'n. maybe I might be mistaken too.
http://forums.intpcentral.com/showth...47#post1145047

[Helios]

yeah. it happens with other N's of assorted flavors. "real' or not, I love it, as it is rare and more tangible than about everything else around

[foodeater]

Yeah, with other intuitives mostly.

[Neville]

One enfj and one enfp, it was wonderful, until they realized how poor a judge of character they were.

[pan_sonic_000]

Rarely. Always N's, though.