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    Default Instantly clicking with someone??

    By "instantly clicking" I mean meeting someone for the first time and after a few minutes you

    -have the feeling that you can truly be yourself around that person.
    -feel like you can say or do anything you would around that person without upsetting them.
    -have the feeling that you don't have to "dumb it down" for them.
    -make jokes or say things you would otherwise keep to yourself.

    Basically, the person seems totally in sync with you. You are also very relaxed around him/her. In short, you sense that the person "gets you" on a higher level.

    Has this ever happened to anyone else? What exactly is this? Why does it happen?

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    Yes, I have experienced this. I later married her.

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    Yes, it's happened to me twice.

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    Once I guess, but I was mistaken.

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    they're always ENFx. Always. More often ENFJ.
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    Yea just a few days ago. But Im a young'n. maybe I might be mistaken too.
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    yeah. it happens with other N's of assorted flavors. "real' or not, I love it, as it is rare and more tangible than about everything else around

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    Yeah, with other intuitives mostly.
    One day, I'll find just that friend who can see
    All this weird beauty
    Thrown right at me

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    One enfj and one enfp, it was wonderful, until they realized how poor a judge of character they were.

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    Rarely. Always N's, though.

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